Holding together two opposite thoughts and feelings is a challenge these days.
I’m trying to synchronize very different things I “know” to be true.
So far, I’m failing –one is almost always taller and stronger than the other.
Or maybe being out of sync isn’t a failure. Perhaps insisting on synchronicity is childish. Maybe being all grown up and stuff means being able to listen to Beethoven while watching a baseball game. Some things you don’t have to synchronize. Some contrasts don’t have to be resolved. Some opposites are worth maintaining for one’s mental health.
Take, for instance, tolerance and intolerance. Is it possible, or morally permissible, to be tolerant or intolerant, or do we have to synchronize them, and, if we do, what would that look like? You can’t be tolerant and intolerant of everything! Some decisions must be made. But maybe you still can synchronize them according some deeper sense of self and world — like the search for beauty, truth, and goodness.
Intolerant people whip up my intolerance for intolerance.
It’s very hard to synchronize when you feel like your country is drowning!
Gordon C. Stewart, May 24, 2019, “drowning in Chaska” MN.